More Indian than you think #Indicontest

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I am proud to be an Indian….Vande Mataram.

When I was in school and when too many constraints were put
on us then I thought that we are living in the conservative society and the
Americans are the better. They have liberal attitude and parents and society
don’t coax much as India. Gradually when I grew up and discovered more about
foreign countries then I concluded that I was living in one of the best country
where we have freedom to choose our religion and faith, doctrine and dogmas and
no religion is imposed on us.

The traditions and cultures are unique of our country and is
quite scientific. In primitive days, people were not educated so the scientific
process to be followed was presented before the people in the name of religion.
Basically, it is the science that has positive effects on human body.

I believe India is the only country which is diverse and
there is Unity in Diversity and together it is a myriad of hues. The
traditions, food & dressing habits and cultures differ from one place to
another and the lifestyle adopted is according to the local climate and weather
of the place.

In North, people keep the broom on floor whereas in South,
people keep the broom 
upright. Upright broom in North is regarded as inauspicious
and South people consider inauspicious if broom is kept on the floor. The basic
reason behind this custom, I feel that it is due to the weather of the place.
In South, the weather is moderate so keeping it on the floor will damage the
broom. This is one example.

The Ayurveda had its advent in our land and the herbs used
are mainly found in our country and today, Ayurveda healing is practiced all
over the world. The people in abroad come to India to learn Ayurveda
medicines….This is what India is.

Family system and stable marriages are the virtues of Indian
thought. In many parts of the world, family system does not exist. As soon as
the children attain the age of adulthood, they move to live independent and are
not bothered about the welfare of their parents. No doubt, excellent facilities
exists to take care of the ailing and needy but personal touch is missing
whereas in India, relationships exist on personal touch.
In India, it is believed that Marriages are made in heaven,
hence it is seen as a sacred institution and the marriage is not just the
affair of a couple. Marriage is between the two families and all are connected
with each other. The couple and the family leaves no stone unturned to save the
marriage in case there is conflict. The marriage is disintegrated when there is
no way of reconciliation…Indian mentality so concerning and so pious.
Despite urbanization and joint family disintegration, still
the family members take care of each other when someone is in financial crisis
or emotional disturbance. This personal touch adds grace to relationships and
the bond of connection is strong.
Even one is ill or is suffering from chronic illness, family
members take care of the ailing person. Money can buy nursing care but the care
by the relatives boost the morale of the person and the person is healed in
less time.
I am proud of my country and I feel proud to be called
Indian. And we are more Indian than we are thought to be.

Safe & Pleasurable!!! #Condom usage in India

Sex is essential for procreation as well as recreation. To enjoy safe
sex and for sexual wellness, one need to adopt method of contraception
and one of the safe method is usage of condoms to be free from worries
of conceiving or transmitting STD diseases.

Condom is regarded as one of the safe methods and its simple
application makes it more popular among the masses across the globe.

This method of contraception is not new, it’s in vogue since 400
years, though it was not sophisticated or easy to use as it is today,
but still there are lot of inhibitions and stigma attached to it. It is
not very easy for the people to procure from the shops, though it is
easily available at most of the shops.

There is a taboo attached to the purchase of condoms. Everyone is
familiar with it but if still one tries to buy or enquire about it, many
faces turn up towards the person who asks for it and the person is
regarded as bad or immoral and that’s the reason that people evade from
buying from outlets near to their home or in neighbourhood.

Many times, people walk miles to buy condoms for themselves as people feel embarrassed to buy one.

Our society of today is literate but still the matter of sex is
discussed in hushed tone and people turn crimson on discussion of the
same; even the outright person avoids such circumstances.
Finally, the Online Condoms Shops
have come to the rescue of the masses from where they can purchase any
brand of condom without turning pink or evading the eyes of onlookers.

This online portal offers
varieties to choose from according to their wants and desires and
affordability. There are range of products available of Sexual wellness
and one has ample time in privacy to choose the products of their

This online portal of Online Condom Shops
has brought cheers to the couples and menfolk where they can place the
orders without any embarrassments or fears and the best part and parcel
of this portal is that the identity of the buyer is withheld and the
packing is so discreet that onlookers can’t make it that it carries
condom till it is not opened…so now no grins and no glaring eyes.
It is directly delivered to the address of the buyer and the buyer does not need to disclose its personal details for procuring online condoms.

The portal is very user
friendly and the condoms and sexual wellness products of all the brands
are available on this portal and at the click of the button, you can
choose from the drop down menus and get it delivered at your location.
It is a hassle free procedure.

Online portal has been
introduced to overcome the inhibitions that men & women went through
while procuring the sexual wellness products and in lack of it, there
was great progression in termination of unwanted pregnancies & high
incidence of AIDS & STD and men are more vulnerable to it owing to
unprotected sex in India.

To counter the embarrassments & lack of knowledge, online portal
has been introduced to counteract the issues and to ensure that Indian
men get habituated to this concept of safe and pleasurable sex without
any worries or fears.

Other than Condoms, to add zing in your sex life, one can purchase lubricating gels of different brands which aids to heighten the excitement in sex among males & females and vibrating rings
are available for the females which helps them to arouse and attain
orgasm in females easily and both the partners can equally cherish the
ecstasy of sexual life and this online portal is of immense help for the
Indian youth and couples who are more in numbers in our country
compared to other countries.

The Lubricating gels are available in different flavors and in
different sizes for both male and female counterpart and it can be used
while indulging in foreplay, an important affair before getting ready
for the copulation. These gels are basically formulated to arouse both
the sexes.

The vibrating rings are designed to arouse females during foreplay to enjoy sex thereafter.

The Condoms comes in different colors, designs, size and flavors and
one can secretly choose their choice and enjoy the act with no

The Condom makes the sexual act safe and pleasurable with no fears of unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

Explore the website for more details.

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Are you Just With Your Children? #AtoZChallenge

Many times, we come across such parents who favour one child
more than the other. I feel very bad for those kids and I believe that been
unjust, the parents are creating a strife between the siblings.

It is not healthy for the children, it stunts their emotional
growth and inferiority complex envelops them.

Many times, I wonder as to why parents differentiate between
their children when all are their own offspring.

In many families, younger ones are more pampered and elder
one is shelved with responsibility though the difference between the siblings
are only two to three years.
At times, the sincere or studious
kid is pampered or is the centre of attraction.

Through my article, I wish to address to all the parents to
be JUST with their kids.

All are your offspring, the same pain you have undergone to
bring them to this world, so justified treatment should be given to all.

Treat all the kids alike and give them the same opportunity.

Don’t compare the children, complex develops within the
child and it affects their personality. Even sibling rivalry develops among the

Parents or other members of the family should take care to
treat all alike in spite of differences in their persona & presentation.

I believe the kid who is weak needs more care than the
sincere ones. Push your child to do better.

Your encouraging words will bring in a lot of positive changes.

Don’t bully them or discourage them.

The elder one is too a kid, two three years difference doesn’t
make him a man, hence responsibility should not be loaded rather it is should
be well distributed among them and they will take as a challenge to complete n
will rather enjoy doing it.

A child who fetches good numbers in class or is a bright
student is more cared by the parents than the other one who is average in
studies. The disparity among children should be abolished.

Parents, do justice in sharing your love towards your

Justified treatment will enhance the persona of the children
and they will grow into independent entity with healthy mind & positive

Children with positive thoughts are an asset to the society
too and we can hope for safe environment in society.

I believe that the frustrated souls are the species who
create nuisance in society by indulging in eve teasing, murder, rape etc.

Parents love and care is the important ingredient in the
life of a child and the basic care and affection moulds their personality.

Do you support my view?

Pl leave your comments.


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*Keep Smiling*

Musings XII



Bookish knowledge helps you to gain numbers

The knowledge of worldly affairs outnumbers.

One should not be bookworm. Been bookish will not help the person to rule in the world. One need to have practical knowledge to compete with the world. You can get a job based on numbers but you can’t fare well in the organisation if you are not competent to tackle the situations.

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Musings XI

#Justice Delayed is Justice Denied.

Wish to see the changes

in the dictum of our laws.

Cases are pending long in courts

Innocents are often behind the bars

Waiting for the justice

The culprits move freely.

In wait of justice

One or two generation perish

But the case is not resolved.

In India, judiciary is very slow in pronouncing sentences to culprits. In the wait of justice, many innocent perish behind the bars and the culprits enjoy the liberty of freedom. It is the need of the hour to amend the laws and bring in changes in absolving the cases in minimum time.



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Musings X


Watching him messing with food

I went into the flashback

When I used to mess around

And he used to clean out

And acted stern to not repeat it again.

Now he does & I clean

Making him understand as a child not to repeat it again.

It makes me cry at the irony of life.

#Parkinson #oldage #ironyoflife #suffering #life



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Independent #AtoZChallenge

How to make your child Independent?
Independent child is a virtue to the parents and society if
they are raised in a right manner. A parents gives the right to independence to the
child with a belief that the child will use it in a right manner. The responsibility
lies on the child to keep up the faith.
Recently, I visited one of my friend and saw that she was
busy in taking care of the chores of the child, who was near about 14-15 years.

I was quite puzzled and thought for a while whether to give
sermon to my friend or not on the way she was treating her child.

She was over protective and over caring and this over care
had spoiled the child, he was totally dependent on his Mom for all of his

His school was nearby home, still she accompanied him in the
morning and recess hours. She would feed him, helped him in his school work and
again accompanied to play ground.

I couldn’t stop myself and blurted out in front of her

“What are you doing Maya? You are spoiling Yash. Raise him
as an individual entity and let him grow and handle things on his own. He is no
more a small child, give me some space. Even the moms of small children don’t
follow their children as you do.” I said.
“It’s my love, Dear.” Maya said.

“This is not love, love gives freedom to be independent,
this is your fear and it has made you over possessive. Even I love my children
more than my life but have given space to grow and have made them so
independent that even if I am not in house, they can manage themselves well.”

I told her the ways to handle growing child and how to make
them independent.

As the child grows, start giving him responsibility and
freedom to handle things on their own. They will learn through trial n error
method and in that process they may keep you on toes to clean the mess but
gradually they will pick up the habits and settle.

Once they start kindergarten, ask them to keep their tiffin
& water bottle in their bags and while returning ask them to stack at the
designated place.

This habit will help him to arrange their books in next
classes and be methodical.

If the school is nearby, let them go by themselves when they
reach the age of 10. At this age, they are matured to cross the road and manage
themselves. Initially, if you have fears, follow them and watch how the child
is managing and gradually wean him out of the habit.

Stop feeding them. Give them their food and let them eat on
their own. Your work of cleaning may double initially but slowly, he will get
into the habit.

Ask them to do their homework on their own. Help them where
they stuck. Don’t provide the answers, teach the technique to reach at the
answer, this way the child will use his brain and be independent.

Teach them activity of outside world too with age. 

Slowly teach them how to interact at Post offices, Doctor’s
Clinic, Banks etc. They will learn how to transact and will become independent
and confident.

Teach them to iron their school uniforms and arrange their
bags and beds.

They will grow into confident individuals and you too will
have time to pursue your hobbies or take rest after hectic schedule.

Maya understood my point and promised that she will abide by
the same and transform Yash to a confident and independent child.

Moms…ensure to teach your child the practical life and make
them independent in thought and actions and guide them on the right track to
ascertain their happy future.

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Hacker #AtoZChallenge

The woman is reborn when she becomes a mother. Howsoever
careless she was, the day she cuddles her bundle of joy, she becomes
responsible, caring and her heart is full of love. Her day starts with the
child and her night ends with her child. She is so obsessed to give her child
all the wonderful things of the world.

She is always on the spree how to make her motherhood
enjoyable and devises ways to achieve them and there she becomes Mom-Hacker.

To spend more time with her child, she discovers shortcut method
to comply with the demands as a Mother, wife and at times as a daughter-in-law.
God made woman very strong from inside and she is used to
multi-tasking. Woman power is often associated with Devi Durga and she has the
ability of Devi to handle multiple things at one time, still she desires to
apply few shortcuts to meet the demand of the situation.

The morning hours are hectic when the kids are young, you
need multiple hands to juggle between school and office timings plus getting
oneself ready to leave the kids to the bus stop. One has to run around packing tiffin’s,
getting them dressed and fed, taking out the office dress of husband.


To manage those errands in a smooth manner, I adopted few
kitchen hacks to get relieved in the morning hours and to control my
temperament which gets on high on pressure of too many work at the same time.
In the night, kids slept early and I had ample time to
arrange the things for morning chores.

  • I prepared the dough at night and stored in the

  • The vegetables to be prepared next morning were
    cut and washed at night.

  • Ironed the dresses of my kids and hubby and hung
    in the designated wardrobe from where they could take themselves without
    troubling me.

  • The shoes were polished.

This organised structure eased my morning schedules and I
was cool n happy watching things run in a smooth manner. My cool temperament
kept the family members at ease and they remained happy.


A homemaker is in trouble when uninvited guests pour in and
it adds more distress if your maid is absent. To encounter it coolly, I store
Cold drinks & juices in refrigerator. I prepare Aam panna and store in
bottles, ready to serve with mint. It is refreshing drink in summers. I store
ready to make coffee blends to prepare hot and cold coffee as per the climate.

For winters, I store homemade cookies, both sugary & salty and besan laddoos to serve the guests.


On birthdays & anniversary, I believe to throw a party
with homemade servings. I love cooking and serving, it’s quite refreshing for
me. I feel happy to entertain people with my cooked food. But we need a proper
planning to make the guests & oneself comfortable.

  • Cut the required vegetables and store neatly in the fridge

  • Fry the kebabs twelve hours before the party.

  • Marinate non-veg 12 hours prior to party.

  • Knead the required dough for puris.

  • Prepare custards and ice-cream a day before to serve cool

  • Check your kitchen store and buy the lacking items one to
    two day before. Don’t wait for last minute.

  • Grind the required masalas and fry them 12 hours before the

  • Wash the cutleries a day before the party.

  • Change the linen and prior to the covers two days party day.

  • Decide your dress a week before and if you need something,

If the above things are done before the D-day, you and your
guests will enjoy the party. Your smiles will give warm welcome to your guests
and your organised party will be appreciated by all. My style of throwing party
is mentioned above in detail.


  • Cleaning and maintaining cleanliness is a tough job and
    needs a lot of planning. 

Instead of doing all the things in a day, divide the cleaning jobs.

  • I have divided my cleaning chores throughout the
    weekdays excluding Sundays. Sundays are for family and the kids have freedom to

  • One room is cleaned every day and it goes in

  • In morning hours, there is a lot of rush so I
    run my washing machine in noon during winters and in late evenings in summers.

  • I clean my bathroom daily and the rest of
    the family members do the same. This way the bathroom is always clean n dry.

  • Dusting is done every day to ward off dusts and

These hacks reduces the burden and the work is done with ease. Scheduling and doing things in routine eases
troubles and we tend to leave a stress free life.

Linking to #MMM


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Musings IX


People enter the temple to beg for heaven

ignoring the beggars at the entrance of the temple.

If you really wish to avail heaven in your life

Help the real needy people.

Instead of donating money & jewelry to temples

Donate the same to educate the child of an unprivileged.

Heaven or Hell is on the Earth

Your deeds decide your Fate.

People throng in temples requesting God to help them to attain peace and prosperity and donate lots & lots so that their requests are heard.

My belief is that if you feed a thirsty, your action will be rewarded but if you feed a satiated person, there is no value of your deed.

Heaven or Hell both are on Earth and your Karma decides your future.



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Musings VIII


We need to be thankful for what we have, but do we do or feel so…very few. Many take it as their own creation and don’t fathom to give the credit to others. It’s true the creativity that one creates is his own power but what about the powers that we are enjoying for free and the source is natural and free, not a single penny is charged for enormous facility…what is that…The natural resources that we are using in our daily life, Sunlight; Moonlight; Breeze & Water.

Just imagine a day without sunlight, water and breeze…life will not sustain how hard the human  intelligentsia  works for it…so we should extend our gratitude to the unseen creator who has crafted this world so beautifully regulating with ample resources and we should take care that we use it in a gentle way to reserve for the posterity.Life would have been dull without these natural resources.

I am thankful to God for the beautiful nature around and his creations.


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