Envy!!!

Tia & Raj were classmates in college. Gradually, they became closer and fell in love and committed to marry after Raj settles in job. Their love story was popular in college and many envied their relationship.

After bagging the job, Raj married Tia and they settled in Hyderabad. Initial years went out smoothly but after few years, Raj felt hurt when people remarked on his looks. Tia was very beautiful whereas Raj was simple & dark. Tia loved him a lot and never ever his looks concerned her…but what can be said about the insane onlookers…their regular remarks jilted Raj and a feeling of envy crept in the relationship.

There was tremendous change in his behaviour. He started arguing with Tia for no reason, sometimes, in a fit of rage, he hit her…as such he was crossing the limit of the relationship.

Tia understood the reason and chose to keep mum and thought that with time, it would diminish and she openly flaunted her love for him in her actions and words.

But nothing changed him…rather the relationship grew worse.

One day, Tia was in kitchen, boiling milk on the gas stove. At once, she was hit so hard that the boiling milk splashed on her face and burnt her face badly.

It was Raj who did it deliberately and walked out of the house, leaving Tia alone.

The neighbours overheard her scream and took her to the hospital for further care.

Her face was badly disfigured and she was in great pain.

She took the entire blame on herself and didn’t mention Raj’s name…such was her love for her man and what a man, Raj was. For few petty remarks by people, he jilted her lover and it was his envy that made him take such drastic step of burning Tia.

It would have been better for both Raj & Tia, if he would have parted his ways instead of damaging Tia to such an extent that she lost her voice and still she didn’t want to hurt her love.

Envy can be disastrous to a great level if the resentment is at height.

My perception is that if ever you feel envious in your relationship, sit calmly with the person and coolly discuss your feeling and clarify your doubts.

Envy is like a termite which slowly eats the person.

Don’t let envy eat you, rule out the reasons for yourself and clear the gloom of doubt and if you are unable to do, seek help of parents, friends, life-partner or spiritual guru.

Socrates truly said, Envy is the ulcer of the soul.

This post is written for #ClickAndBlogAStory’s prompt “Envy” for Week # 7. Linking it to http://www.slimexpectations.com Zainab and http://www.allaboutthewoman.com Bushra’s blog.

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Mother’s Guide!! #Exam Stress!







The word “Examination” creates a fear in the minds of school
going children, to some extent, it’s healthy because it creates an attention to
do better in the subjects and bring good scores in the exam. Even the studious
child, who is regular in studies and keep himself updated, still the word Exam
has an effect on him to concentrate on his subjects…but if exam disturbs the
child to such an extent that he runs away from appearing, then that’s a concern
and he needs attention of his parents and if still he is unmanageable, then
opinion of counselor should be taken to drain out the fear from his mind.

My kids are no more in this stage, they are settled in their
jobs, but in my society, there are many school going children, so I get
opportunity to watch the reactions of the kids and their parents.

Since a decade or more, I have been observing that the exam
pressure is not only built in the minds of the children but their parents too
are much tensed and they are after their child to mug up all the answers to
score high in class. I too took care of my children & sacrificed my Me time
investing in their study hours but I never got tensed nor never ever did their
homework or project work….These days, I find the parents completing their
children’s project and homework and they spoon-feed their children.

I find few reasons behind this behaviour…they have fear
instilled in their minds that their child won’t score high if they invest their
time in doing homework…for project work, they think that they will mess the
house so they better do it to maintain cleanliness around and further, they
feel that their parents didn’t spoon-fed them and they take spoon-feeding in
right notion.

But here, I wish to say to the parents of this age to drop
fears from their mind & take care not to instil fears in the minds of
children. Their children can do much better if he is left to do it on their own…Man
learns through trial & error method and by the mistakes, one corrects
himself…same way, if you let your child do his project on his own, there are
certainly chances that he will mess the house but he will learn how to do it
skills and his creativity will bloom…same way, if he does his homework on his
own, the contents will remain in his mind and he won’t need lot of extra time
to learn….Stop spoon feeding…let him evolve, learn & use his intellect.

I observe that the parents are quite easy going before the
exams and when exams approach, they confine the kids and themselves and start
forcing the child to complete the assignments & the portion that is due to
be asked in the examination…but this practice should be stopped.
My thoughts differ from the crowd of today and I wish that
all parents of today should adopt & inculcate healthy habits in their
children and keep their life in routine in normal school days and not to pressurize them during exams.
  • Regular in Studies: Inculcate habits in your children to revise
    the taught lessons. The child should cover up all the portions of every
    subjects on daily basis. If the child is regular in studies then he don’t have
    to invest lot of time during exams. Regular study & revision is a must to
    minimize exam stress.

  • Stop Spoon-feeding: Already mentioned above, Stop
    spoon-feeding. Out of affection, parents indulge in this practice but with this
    technique, your kid won’t be able to explore his ideas or use his creativity.
    Dropping this practice, you will find immense improvement in your child because
    using his own brain, he will become independent & his quality of thought
    will improve too with the passage of time.

  • Give him healthy Diet: Mommies instead of fretting &
    fuming over exams or mugging up lessons of your children, concentrate to cook
    healthy diet for them including much of green & protein & avoiding junk
    or readymade food….I hear mother’s saying that she couldn’t cook due to kid’s
    exam nearing or getting the homework completed & ordered from market. This
    practice will stunt physical & mental growth of the child and a school
    going child needs enough nutrients to boost his growth in all spheres.

  • Assign time for Extra-activities: Assign fixed time for
    watching TV, playing computer or video games or any hobbies that your child has.
    Extra activities release the stress of the children and it refreshes their mind…Even
    during exams, they should be provided time for these activities.

  • Proper Sleep: Adequate sleep is a must for the growing children.
    Don’t let them over-stress during exams, rather they need to be peaceful during
    exams so that they can write the exams efficiently…at times, overstraining
    leads to nervous breakdown. Sleep is essential to repair the cells of the body.

  • Boost the morale of your child: Instead of saying, “You can’t
    do it”. Boost them that he can do it…It has a very positive impact on the child’s
    mind and his confidence builds up.

Exam time can be fun if the child is regular in revision. I
have followed the above practice with my children and it yielded positive
result and it reduces exam stress to a great extent.

Try this & you will see wonderful change in your child’s
behaviour pattern.

It’s solely my take and my observations.


Linking this post with #MondayMommyMoments hosted by Deepa Gandhi and Amrita Misra

Skills That I learnt! #Motherhood


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A day a woman becomes a Mother, she is reborn. As she holds
her bundle of joy, a sense of maturity creeps in and she is no more a carefree
girl…She transforms to a doting mother where her child becomes her priority…and
all love & affections flow for the child.

I too was not an exception…motherhood changed me
completely…I careless and bindaas girl transformed into a caring mother, the
moment I bore my first child…and the joy to hold my flesh in my hands cannot be
put into words…words can’t elaborate the feelings that I went through…I was
amazed to watch my child with the features resembling me…I couldn’t believe my
eyes that I had carried him for complete nine months in my womb…the feeling was
surreal and it fetched me immense happiness & satisfaction….it took time to
accept that he was my fragment, incarnated by me.

Motherhood transformed me completely. The journey to
motherhood wasn’t easy but I readily accepted all the physiological, physical
and emotional changes within me and the pregnancy blues with happiness just for
the sake of my child and when the doctor put me into my arms, tears of
happiness welled in my eyes & that day itself, I promised with myself to
rear him a good human with good values…I think all Mom’s feels the same.


Motherhood blessed me with Patience & Tolerance: I was
the impatient one and I was not well- acquainted with the word patience. I
never got irritated even if he kept me on toes whole night rather I managed him
solely with happiness emerging within me. I used to give him five times massage
in a day, all by myself after C-Section. I fed him on time at regular intervals
as suggested by doctors & mums at home. Never ever I felt tired or low
while attending my son, even I was amazed at the change in me and never knew
the hidden potential within me…the relatives & onlookers eyes were widened
watching me handling the things with ease…I believe the virtue of motherhood
teaches us well. Now my toddlers have outgrown my lap, but with time, I have
grown more patient and calm and lend them my ears whenever they need my
guidance.

Motherhood transformed me to Early Bird: Never in my life, I
had woken up at 4 am in the morning not even for the final exams, but just a
vague cry of my son early in the morning broke my slumber and I was alert to do
his chores…normally, I never woke up before 8 am and if ever I did, I took half
an hour or more to be alert but becoming mother changes within me came in
drastically.

Motherhood made me Overprotective & Faint-hearted: With
the passage of time, I found that I had become overprotective and possessive
about my son and feared something untoward when for a fraction of second, my
eyes missed him…such was the impact of becoming a Mother. I never left my son
with support staff or helpers, an unknown fear gripped on the thought of leaving him
to strangers and preferred that he be around me most of the time.

Motherhood graced me with DIY skills: Never before, I had
knitted sweaters or stitched any cloth but after becoming a mother, I learnt
all the skills and guys, you will surprised to know that my kids never ever
wore ready-made sweaters till Std. XII. It was my passion to make sweaters for
them and this passion led me to learn it in depth & afterwards, I started
tutoring people who had flair for knitting. Same was the case with stitching, I
stitched all the napkins, caps, frocks and bed rolls for my kids. I derived
happiness indulging in stitching and knitting and I gain mastery in these subjects especially knitting. Even I updated my
knowledge in Homeopathic medicines & learnt the techniques of first-aid,
which comes handy when the child hurts while learning to walk or crawling. I
became well versed in Do-It-Yourself Techniques.

In my eyes of my children, I am their Role model and they
follow me and their trust is built upon me, so I have to keep myself updated so
that I don’t ever disappoint them. Becoming mother, once again, I revised all
the rhymes of kindergarten, updated my general knowledge quotient because in
their eyes, I am a Supermom, who knows everything at the fullest.


Becoming a mother is challenging but once you cuddle your
sweetheart in your arms, the world looks small and we feel our wings
strengthened ready for any ride, be it on smooth plains or on roller and
coaster ride. With babies, we enjoy each moment of life and the tough ride
appears easy. The best thing is that they keep you busy, you don’t get time to
brood over disappointments of life and their cute smiles & the way they
reciprocate to your lullabies makes your day beautiful and you profusely thank
Supreme power for gifting you a cute child, a part of you plays in your lap.


                                                                       Copyright Ila Varma, 2017


It was my share…What you learnt as a Mom, Do share.






Linking this post with #MondayMommyMoments hosted by Deepa Gandhi and Amrita Misra

Silent Gratitude!!!

It’s quite true, “Silent Gratitude isn’t much use to anyone.”

But expressing gratitude only in simple words is not only the solution. One should have a deep feeling for it.

The word, “Thank You” has a great meaning attached to it and if real emotions are strewn with it, the impact is much more.

My experience says something else.

I am watching this world since four decades of my life with eyes & ears open, deciphering each & every emotions and gathering experience from the minuscule to the large variation of emotions. Been a keen observer, I perceive a lot and decipher it as per my perception…I may not be right at all times…my perceptions may differ.

Change is the law of nature and the world around is on constant change.

Change for the betterment would have made the world a better place to live in…but sorry to say that with the huge advancement in technology, even Man got affected to a greater extent and the emotions too got mechanized…people are forgetting the importance of emotions in life…the emoji have caught hold of expressing emotions.

I would have been happy if emoji’s too delivered real emotions…mostly, it’s Superficial.

In today’s world, most people around are wearing masks…they act like machines and the words spoken are superficial…it flows out but they don’t hold much meaning to it and if these people extend their gratitude in just two words, I feel chagrined.

They speak out because they think that they have to utter but if you watch their faces, no amount of gratitude you will read on their faces…rather aapko lagega, wah aapka mazaak bana raha hai.

Don’t think, I’m misleading, it’s a fact that I have read from my experiences…I am giving a few instances and I’m sure few of you might have encountered such experience in life.

Once one of a relative was in distress and asked for financial help. I too was in tight fix still I spared the amount feeling his urgency…I think he forgot to return & I too did not remind him…I felt belittled asking for the sum…After one whole year, he appeared out of the blue to pay the amount back and the way, he said…I was shocked…He said that he never ever borrows money and if in urgency, he does, he pays back without reminder…nowhere he mentioned that he was thankful that I stood beside him in distress…nor his face showed that he felt the gratitude…What you will say for such people?

The world has gone turtle. In the arrogance, whim, and fancies of the world, people have forgotten disbursing small joys of life.

I feel it’s important to feel the weight of gratitude and then only convey in words and if you don’t feel, don’t chuckle out for the sake of saying…it’s worthless.

Positive attitude brings positivity to your life and Superficiality brings in negativity in life and deprive one to flourish.

Don’t just spell out the word, “Thank You”, show the gratitude in our actions and behaviors …it will raise the bar of your life and you will prosper…Don’t demean the word, Gratitude.

Show your gratitude to keep yourself happy first…if you are happy then only you can bring happiness in other’s life.

I’m the person, who doesn’t show Agarbattis to our god on daily basis but do try to be of help to people who need my help in anyone because I believe more in Karma than Dharma.

Karma can improve your Dharma but only Dharma cannot have an impact on Karma.

The views are solely mine and it’s my take, Do share yours.

Ila Varma, 23-02-2017

Linked with Thankful Thursdays.

Linking up with Amrita , Tina,Deepa  and  Mayuri

Friday Foto Fiction Week 13.

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The huge palatial bungalow where we grew stood today, dark & dingy with cobwebs hanging all around.

Tears welled up in my eyes, this was the place where Maa-Pa lived with dignity and kept the ancestral property neat and clean…and what we did?

In race of earning high, we uprooted our roots.

Now, I have to visit Oxygen pubs to breathe in fresh air, hit back to gym to maintain fitness…and here we have all in plenty.

I took the decision.

I resigned from the job and moved here with the family.

Once again, life regained & I felt rejuvenated.

(100 words)

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Review of Mama Earth Baby Products!!! #Childcare


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 Mama
Earth Asia’s 1st Made Safe Certified Toxin Free Brand.

The founders of Mama Earth is Varun Alagh & GhazalAlagh. They were one of the carefree couple but when they were expecting their
first child, they became conscious of the safety of the baby and they started
the research of the baby products. They discovered that most of the baby
products contained toxins which is harmful for the health of the babies. They
were not only concerned about their own baby but for all the babies they knew
in their friend circle. There, their journey began to create products which
were completely safe and certified toxin free. A brand which develops products
from world class research after heavy trials in an attempt to solve the little
problems that each parents face. With this projection, they ambled forward and
in this way, Asia’s 1st Made Safe Certified Toxin Free Brand Mama Earth
was born.



Mama Earth’s 4 Core Values

  • Safety:
     
    Mama Earth are first made safe
    certified toxin free brand and they take care that each product is clinically
    tested and trialled in Europe.

  • Honesty:
    The ingredients used in the products are clearly mentioned on the packaging
    for the parents to know what all are been used & even on the website, the
    products are rated & details mentioned therein, so transparency is there.

  • Mum-empowerment:
    The best part is all the products are by the mom, for the mom & through
    the moms.

  • Best
    of the earth:
    They choose the best available ingredients be it natural,
    plant-based or synthetic and the concern is both for safety & efficacy of
    the product.

The well-being of the Baby matters
most, its equivalent to Baby’s love.

The product of Mama Earth is free
of all the below mentioned harmful chemicals.


  • No Parabens
  • No Sulphates
  • No Phthalates
  • No Mineral Oil
  • No Petroleum
  • No Synthetic Fragrances or Dyes.

In Feb.2017, I received a Travel
kit of Mama Earth products by the brand and was enamoured by its packaging,
it’s quite comfortable to carry during outing with your baby.

The travel kit comprised of 4
Daily use baby products:

  • Moisturizing Daily Lotion for Babies.
  • Gentle Cleansing Shampoo for
    Babies.
  • Deeply Nourishing Body Wash for
    Babies.
  • Soothing Massage Oil for Babies.

When I received
the product, at first, I used on myself before trying on my niece, Rose to be
sure of the efficacy & safety of the product and found it very soothing and
toxin free and then my cutie, Rose tried on and we thoroughly enjoyed using the
baby products.

Come on, let me
tell you in detail about the ingredients of the products, one by one and the
experience with Mama Earth Baby Products.



Moisturizing Daily Lotion for Babies:
consists of Shea butter, Aloe Vera, Calendula extract, Almond & Jojoba Oil,
all ingredients pulled out from nature and it’s a light weight blanket of
moisture and it protects the skin from dryness and skin irritation. It isn’t
greasy, so the baby feel fresh and velvety soft and the mother’s don’t need to
bother about staining. As I have already said it is a product which both Mom
& baby can use it and enjoy the blend of mild fragrance of nature. My
sis-in-law & Rose is using it profusely and at times, I use it for myself.
I insist the
mothers to buy this product for their babies and enrich the skin with the
mildness of natural products, free from toxins.



Gentle Cleansing Shampoo for Babies: constitutes of coconut
based cleansers & conditioners & Lavender essential oil, products
extracted from nature and it cleanses the scalp, leaving the hair soft &
silky and it lathers easily. Few drops are enough for your baby. The best part
is that been toxin free, it doesn’t irritates the sensitive eyes of infants, so
Mumma you can use for your baby without making her cry & even it is gentle
on the skin.





Deeply Nourishing Body Wash for Babies: is prepared from
coconut based cleansers & conditioners, Aloe Vera, orange essential oils,
all by products of nature. Nature is in abundance in each and every formulae of
Mama Earth Baby products. Give your baby a bubbly bath and enjoy the freshness
of it. It gives complete cleansing to the skin from head to toe and keep skin
soft, supple & nourished. It is friendly to eyes & skin.




Soothing Massage Oil for Babies: is
prepared of pure almond, jojoba, cold pressed sesame oil, coconut and olive oils.
It is very soothing to the baby’s body & regular massage with this oil will
improve the girth of the baby, strengthen their bones and keep them fit &
healthy. It is easily absorbed in the skin. Baby loves massage and with natural
oils, you & baby both will fall in love with it. It pampers the skin of the
mother & baby.
My sis-in-law &
niece Rose are loving the mild fragrance of the Mama Earth baby products and
she thanked me profusely for briefing her about the product and she bought 200
ml packs of all the four products from online store and she has vouched to use
it always for her baby and herself.


Even it is cost
effective, and it is safe and efficient. Realizing its efficacy and safe, I am
grateful to the couple Varun & Ghazal Alagh, who came up with the best
product.
Kudos to the team
of Mama Earth.
You can buy the
products online from Amazon, First Cry & Nykaa portals.

 #MMM

Five Vices!!!

How can one be thankful for the vices? Never heard of it before nor had ever tried, but The Thankful Thursday asked me to jot down the vices for which I am thankful to Almighty.

Even the Supreme power will be astonished as what I am upto.

I racked my brain and finally closed to Five Vices for which I am thankful…let’s see whether readers agree with me or not…if I would have been asked virtues, there would have been a long list…anyways, let’s start.

  1. Been Online: Common complain of my close associates to far one, friends & foes, they find me online and even their walls are flooded with my posts & comments…Yuck...many feel that I am busy in chatting…and me…I hate chatting. I am online researching on the subjects to write, reading opinion of others, writing on my subjects and for all these, I need to be online.
    This vice can be annoying for many but for me, it has yielded good results and my identity as a blogger, Twitterati has increased manifold.

2. Present in Most Social Networking Sites: One more complaint, I hear from my family & close associate that I am omnipresent on all social sites and they fear that my account can be hacked or manipulated or sharing information is not beneficial…I just smile because I know that this vice has proved productive for me as my writings have the wide audience and I learn so many things from the circle of social friends & I have drawn a fine line of ethics so that none can use me in a wrong way.

3. Shopaholic: Since teenage, I shop a lot and my cravings are for fabrics, which includes dresses, bedsheets, curtains & cushion covers; books & magazines and music…nowadays, it’s been more easy with online shopping and nowadays courier people are well aware of my shopping habits and the connectivity “ne mere vice ko chaar chand laga diya hai”..now at the click of the button, I purchase what I wish to…sometimes, I am caught in impulsive buying …still I am thankful for this vice and at this stage when my nest is empty, it acts more as therapeutic and keeps me fresh & lively.

4. Music: I am a lover of music…I  put it this way, I breathe music, I am in love with music and with music, I can stay lonely in any isolated island. I am thankful for this vice because it makes me independent in thought and actions and I feel full of life. Elders at my house sometime gets irritated with my loud music but finding me happy & busy, their gussa vanish off often.

5. Emotional Attachment: I get attached very easily and can’t endure watching people in pain and I can go to any extent to provide help to the needy…in this course, I help a lot of people…often, I stretch my limits but there have been incidents when people were good enough to extract from me by feigning…but still my this vice is in continuation because I believe in that one can dupe only once but for thousand times, he won’t get the love & support when he is actually in need of it.

I call these vices because at times, people get irritated at me for indulging in these vices but I am at ease indulging in them and I am grateful to the supreme power to have blessed with the most that I can avail these easily.

It was my take, Do share yours.

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Family #Unconditional Love

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Where can one find unconditional love?

Parents are the pillars of unconditional love and their love for their kids never ceases and the child is always a child in the eyes of their parents…they outgrow their lap but they never outgrow their hearts…that’s the beauty of love where there are no conditions, no boundaries…it is the love that is never tired of giving.

The day, woman comes to know of her pregnancy, her attention & focus shifts to the life that she is carrying in her womb and she tackles all the pregnancy blues to have a glimpse of the baby…the token of her love.

She goes through bone wracking pain for the sake of bringing a child…a mother knows of the pain that she undergoes to bring a life in the world…and the day she bears, it is her rebirth.

Parents are attached to their child but the intensity of attachment is at maxim in mothers, the reason is that she carries for nine months in her womb and the umbilical cord is severed to bring out the child, so the attachment is deep.

Parents are quite protective towards their children…it is not seen only in human…but you can see this attachment on all life on this earth who can bear offspring.

Watch the birds…how they feed their children, teach them to fly and how they protect their eggs & babies from enemies…even in animals, you will find the same unconditional love towards  their children and how beautifully they rear them, making them independent.

Why is Family important?

Man is a social animal and he needs people around to share and care and in the initial stage of life, family is the backbone of an individual and one is fully dependent on their parents, grandparents & siblings. The child learns the basics from family through trial n error and the family stands by through thick and thin to guide and hold when you stumble.

After blood relations, the role of friends in our life is appreciable and the good friends are not less than own siblings…we share our joys and sorrows and by sharing joys multiplies and sorrows gets divided.

When we are settled or completed education…we settle with the companion to share and care and procreate…at every juncture of life, we need family at the back end to support us mentally, physically, emotionally & financially and we pay the debts of our parents by bringing the child into the world and taking its responsibility.

Life is a circle…we reach at the same point we started our life though the characters & the characteristics change with time.

We all need a family to share our good & worst things of life and a shoulder to cry.

At one instance, family makes you powerful & courageous to fight against the odds of life and in another instances, this family  makes you weak and you are scared to lose someone.

Can’t fathom a world without family?

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Valentine Day Celebrations



Once Upon a time, Valentine Day was a Greek word for Indians
but thanks to the world of media that even the old pairs who have completed their
golden anniversary too are busy with the celebrations….then what to say about
the young pairs….they are anxious and their expectations rise high.

A month before 14th Feb., cards & gifts are
decked up for the occasion, tables booking is on in restaurants and varied
discounts & add-ons are added by the hotel industry.

The town is painted red in the anxious wait for the
Valentine day and all swear their love to their partners and those they don’t
have, they are in ardent search to express their love…with the advent of Feb.,
love starts brimming.

I too get high in Feb, but I am poor in expressions and so
my heart fails to propose or vow and the same is the condition with my
partner.

We are an ideal couple who are poor in expressions.

Further, my take is that love is not a thing to be
celebrated only on a specific day.


Love is a fire which kindles when eyes and soul of two meet
and decide to carry on and the passion for each other increases with each
passing day, building trust upon each other and it reaches the zenith where
even the biggest mistake of love is pardoned…such is the intensity of love and
it can’t be erected in a day, it takes a lot of time, patience and
perseverance
.


Falling in love is easy but to remain in love is promising
and when it reaches the zenith, the love turns unconditional where it only
believes in giving with no expectations…but all relationships or love don’t
reach to that extent.


Still, I don’t disagree with the celebrations but my choice is
a bit different.

I don’t celebrate but still I have a list of choices where
materialistic things are missing, it’s more to enjoy the day with spending less
& enjoying more concept. It would be fulfilling too, it’s my view.
Start the day with a kiss planted on the lips of your love,
it will revive the lost passions and you will feel fresh and present a
beautiful red rose promising to stand by each other through thick and thin and
just as the thorns manage to keep the rose petals safe; same ways you two vouch
for each other.
Ask to wear the dress of your choice and prepare breakfast
for each other. Even one of the partners can surprise showcasing their culinary
skills and table management.
Decide to be together…if there is no urgency at office, take
a day break and enjoy the leave with your partner, indulge in sharing and
caring and love making as mood of both desires.
Go for a long drive with the favourite music playing in the
backdrop, it will entice your passion.
Grab the hours to use in your own way as you desire to be
with your partner.
Decorate your bedroom, light colourful aromatic candles,
play music and enjoy the hours of close proximity.

If you indulge in with pleasant mood, I can challenge
nothing better can replace these moments and no amount can fetch you these
small pretty , invaluable, precious joys of life.

Don’t wait for one long year to celebrate the valentine day,
take a break from fast life in a quarter and enjoy the leisure time with your
partner….this way, the couple come closer and the fire of love rekindles.

This is my choice of gifts on the V-Day…what is yours? Do
share & care.

Writing this for #MondayMommy Moments prompt

Once Upon a Time!

Watching this old snap when I was born, how his firm hands held us tight and his calm touch vanished our fears.

I watched Pa resting on the rocking chair, the robust personality withered with age & Parkinson.

His deep voice held thousand people but now he could be hardly heard.

Once he held me whenever I stumbled while learning to walk.

It was a joyous moment when he taught me to walk but now my heart comes into my mouth when I ask him to take one step at a time & balance his gait.

Linked with FridayFotoFiction Week 12

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