When Someone Very Special Hurts You Deeply
Gives Tears To Your Eyes
And Ask What Happened?
& You Just Reply,
NOTHING!
Really…it hurts to see the people with good educational background don’t have control on their tongue…they don’t even care what they are saying in bad temper…are we getting educated to just amass certificates &medals to showcase in our cupboards & a bank balance to enjoy the comforts of life…when they lose their temper, they don’t care what they are saying & listening to them at that moment, you can’t differentiate between an educated & a rustic…
It is said that the words that are said can’t be taken back…so why not think before speaking else if you can’t think then at least be silent instead of hurting the one who is just requesting & who can’t dare to think bad of or for you and wishes best for you…
It is just disgusting to hear such words or threatening which can’t be imagined from a friend or a well wisher …is it the refund of one’s affection & faith….Think about it…you might not be able to think positive now but it’s better to take few moments out from one’s busy schedule & ponder….
Feelings differ from person to person in any relationship….feelings can’t be measured on weighing scale…even way of responding differs…but at least we can respect one’s feelings & be soft instead of being hyper…even if one hurts till the person is in the good books of the beholder….one stands all the conflicts and just offer to be cool & good in responding.
# Why not we check our habits and bring in a change in ourselves & bring peace & happiness in lives of all…nice soothing words with a smiling lips doesn’t cost much but certainly brings in radical changes in the lives of all you touch…THINK THINK THINK !!!
Really…it hurts to see the people with good educational background don’t have control on their tongue…they don’t even care what they are saying in bad temper…are we getting educated to just amass certificates & medals to showcase in our cupboards & a bank balance to enjoy the comforts of life…when they lose their temper, they don’t care what they are saying & listening to them at that moment, you can’t differentiate between an educated & a rustic…
It is said that the words that are said can’t be taken back…so why not think before speaking else if you can’t think then at least be silent instead of hurting the one who is just requesting & who can’t dare to think bad of or for you and wishes best for you…
It is just disgusting to hear such words or threatening which can’t be imagined from a friend or a well wisher …is it the refund of one’s affection & faith….Think about it…you might not be able to think positive now but it’s better to take few moments out from one’s busy schedule & ponder….
Feelings differ from person to person in any relationship….feelings can’t be measured on weighing scale…even way of responding differs…but at least we can respect one’s feelings & be soft instead of being hyper…even if one hurts till the person is in the good books of the beholder….one stands all the conflicts and just offer to be cool & good in responding.
# Why not we check our habits and bring in a change in ourselves & bring peace & happiness in lives of all…nice soothing words with a smiling lips doesn’t cost much but certainly brings in radical changes in the lives of all you touch…THINK THINK THINK !!!
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I want to be accepted as I am so that I may become what I am…with my best abilities & shortcomings…with all the flaws…I am full of life & love…you won’t find any deception or pretension in me…simple & soft at heart….a bit irrational at times..that’s me….no one is perfect & I love to grow with my imperfections…perfecting it time to time as required but mind it, no superficiality….no lies…no intention to hurt anyone deliberately…try to help the helpless…It’s my request to accept me as I am….accept & feel the difference…you will enjoy my companionship….My smiles will nurture the lives of people who are associated with me as I keep Smiling & believe in spreading my smiles…the most priceless but precious possession that can enlighten the lives that I touch….& seeing others happy keeps me happy & contented !!!!
Love You !!!!!
A Careless Girl Wove a Dream
And, One Fine Day
Her Prince Of Charm
Stepped Into Her Life
Took Her Along To Start A Life Fresh !!!
Life was not only Bed of Roses
It had Thorns Strewn Along
But the Beauty of Roses
Subdued the Pain Of Thorns !!
She Adored Her Prince
Her Madness For Him
Made Her Do All The Wonders
To Adorn Her Life With Him !!!
He Was Ignorant & Naive
Never Tried To Peep Into Her
She Believed That One Day
He Will Realize Her Feelings
Anxiously Waited For The D Day !!!
Their Love Bloomed
She Was Blessed With Two Beautiful Kids
Her Whole Life Revolved Around Them
She Forgot Her Wishes & Was On Her Toes
To See Both Of Them Happy !!!
She Left No Stone Unturned
To Give Them The Best Of This World
Couldn’t Bear Tears In Their Eyes
Searched for A Smile On Their Lips !!!
Time Came When Her Kids Grew
Left The Nest To Settle Their Life
Their Success Welled Her Eyes
The Tears Were Of Happiness
She Saw Her Dreams Fulfilled !!!
A Void In Her Life Was Created
And A Turmoil Inside
One Self Was happy
& The Other Self Helpless !!!
She Had No Choice
Had To Accept The Truth Of Life
Life Is Not A Bed Of Roses
& To Enjoy The Fragrance Of Roses
You Have To Get Pricked By Thorns !!!© By Ila Varma
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As penned down by Ashwin:
It was a new & exciting experience with my beloved Divya, we knew each other since a long time & we thought that we knew each other very well but on our honeymoon trip to Puri…I understood that there was more unseen facet of my girl which wasn’t explored by me & never knew that the experience to explore her self would be so enticing…a meek, sweet & shy girl could be so seductive as a wife …I don’t have any grudges but the time I took to raise the veil between us could be so wonderful & beyond my imagination…totally new & adventurous….our courtship days were quite disciplined….except for one or two instances…when I had lost control on myself ( though it was checked on time)…but Divya used to be very composed & I never imagined that she would defeat me after consummation…to be very frank…she did !!!
Now I understand that male only boast but the women fare well than male counterpart & she has the vigor to sustain the climax…I completely surrendered myself in the hands of my beloved wife…and with each encounter, I came to know more of her…a complete new facet of my beautiful angel who adorned my life with her beauty & love. She knew to lure me & her advances made me feel my importance in her life. Her hot & beautiful body attracted me more to her & she was very fond of me too ( as she used to put in ).
I felt complete in myself…the young saplings were firmly planted & now it was time to grow with the warmth of our relationship. Love is a wonderful feeling which starts with the rapid heart beats of young boy & girl…sight of each other mesmerizes us from within & the mere sight of each other soothes our soul…gradually with time…expectations increase manifold…we enjoy each other company…& we care more of our counterpart than our-self…our concern for each other develops with the passage of time & our heart asks for more & more & after marriage…we seek pleasure in each other company & we desire more & more….it’s on increasing side…..we both were in the same boat enjoying company of each other…promising more & more to be together till our last breath of life.
This simple girl had made interesting plans for our honeymoon….her choice of wardrobe was just mind blowing…& her sense of dressing for her hubby was baffling….I had become slave of my love…she knew the tricks…now I was sure….Ohh…this woman…she had driven me crazyyyy.
All the time, I longed for her proximity & the plans to roam through Puri stood still…I just desired to sit beside her…& nothing else…we talked endlessly….
The trip of a fortnight was very exciting & thrilling & the experience was awesome….we visited important places of Puri & was back to our place amidst our family. There was significant changes in Divya…beautiful lady was glowing in my love & I prayed that she remains sweet throughout life & this bond grows stronger with time.
It was truly a bliss to be with my beloved Divya !!!
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You returned back my Smiles
And relieved me with all the Stress
& fears of losing !!!
Hope I return back to my form
With your kind Support & Care
I need a Trusting Hand
Who can help me to fight
& Win my Subdued Confidence !!!
I’m trying my best
But A Sincere Effort
Will sure Bring in A Change
& Tame My Sufferings !!!
Just Be There To Hold Me
When I lose My Balance
So That I Can Stand Back
With A Wide Smile & Ease !!!
© By Ila Varma
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दिल ने कुछ कहा
कुछ हमसे कुछ तुमसे
हमने सुन कर मुस्कुराया
तुम गुमसुम बन बैठे ।।
हमारी मुस्कुराहट ने मचा दी तबाही
बिना बात के नासुर बन गए
क्या मेरी यही सजा थी मुस्कुराने की
मैंने तो अपनी बर्बादी पर मुस्कुराया
वो समझ बैठे मैंने उनकी खिल्ली उङा दी
मैंने तो सोचा था मेरी मुस्कुराहट
उनकी दुनिया को रंगनियों से सजा देगी
अंजाने में मैंने तो अपनी दुनिया ही उजाङ दी ।।
दिल ने कुछ कहा
कुछ हमसे कुछ तुमसे
इतनी तकल्लुफ से तो अच्छा था
पूछ लेते मुझ से मेरी मुस्कुराने का राज
गम को धुएें में उङा कर
कुछ कहकहे सुना देती
तो तुम भी मेरे संग मुस्कुरा देते
मैं भी कुछ क्षण के लिए
अपने गम को भूल कर
तुम्हारे साथ ठहाके लगा लेती।।
मेरी भी शिकन दूर हो जाती
और तुम भी मुस्कुरा देते
दूरियाँ नजदिकीयाँ में बदल जाती
और दिल तन्हां ना रहता
दिल ने कुछ कहा
कुछ हमसे कुछ तुमसे।।