Innocence Breached! #Rapes #MoralityatStake
Violence,
threats & murder, rapes and incest paints the newsprint, ho halla on
multiple channels steal the serenity of our mind and at times, we question with
ourselves?
threats & murder, rapes and incest paints the newsprint, ho halla on
multiple channels steal the serenity of our mind and at times, we question with
ourselves?
What’s
going on?
going on?
Why so much
of turbulence in an educated society?
of turbulence in an educated society?
Have we got
educated for the sake of acting barbaric?
educated for the sake of acting barbaric?
The news of
a ten year old girl giving birth to a girl child left me shattered and
thousands n thousands of queries stirred me from within…and I can feel her blank eyes.
a ten year old girl giving birth to a girl child left me shattered and
thousands n thousands of queries stirred me from within…and I can feel her blank eyes.
Who is safe
in our community?
in our community?
The small
kids are raped and sodomized. The kids who go through carry the scars with
themselves forever and nothing can help them to erase these unfortunate
incidents.
kids are raped and sodomized. The kids who go through carry the scars with
themselves forever and nothing can help them to erase these unfortunate
incidents.
What are the people up to?
How can a
man be so cruel with her?
man be so cruel with her?
Was he not
able to judge her innocence while outraging her modesty?
able to judge her innocence while outraging her modesty?
My blood
boiled when I came to know that a close family member was involved in this heinous crime…the man stole her childhood forever.
boiled when I came to know that a close family member was involved in this heinous crime…the man stole her childhood forever.
I don’t
know whether this case is the first case of such incident but in my life of 45
years, I have heard it for the first time and this incident challenges all to
be vigilant towards their kids.
know whether this case is the first case of such incident but in my life of 45
years, I have heard it for the first time and this incident challenges all to
be vigilant towards their kids.
Though news
has been floored that she is not informed about the pregnancy & childbirth but
the pregnancy blues are not so easy to digest for a responsible n grown up
woman…how she faced the trauma so silently…She didn’t understand when the man breached
her virginity but carrying baby for so many long weeks…she might be aware of
all the transformations within…even the hushes around are loud enough to make
one aware.
has been floored that she is not informed about the pregnancy & childbirth but
the pregnancy blues are not so easy to digest for a responsible n grown up
woman…how she faced the trauma so silently…She didn’t understand when the man breached
her virginity but carrying baby for so many long weeks…she might be aware of
all the transformations within…even the hushes around are loud enough to make
one aware.
There are
immense physiological & psychological changes, how can it go unnoticed
under her nose?
immense physiological & psychological changes, how can it go unnoticed
under her nose?
I don’t
know her nor have I seen her but my heart cries out for her at the thought of
so many unfortunate incidents that saddled her life and never can she be a
normal child again.
know her nor have I seen her but my heart cries out for her at the thought of
so many unfortunate incidents that saddled her life and never can she be a
normal child again.
The
ignorance of her parents jeopardized her life forever.
ignorance of her parents jeopardized her life forever.
How her
Mother could not notice her physiological changes?
Mother could not notice her physiological changes?
Even the
illiterate chunks are well aware of these basic things.
illiterate chunks are well aware of these basic things.
The law of
our country proved futile for her…leaving her at the risk of giving birth to a
child when she herself was a child, who saw only ten springs of her life.
our country proved futile for her…leaving her at the risk of giving birth to a
child when she herself was a child, who saw only ten springs of her life.
I may sound
harsh n stern but it would have been far better to terminate her pregnancy
risking her life…even this take was a real threat to her life.
harsh n stern but it would have been far better to terminate her pregnancy
risking her life…even this take was a real threat to her life.
A child came
into this world, who got abandoned on the very first second of life; how she
will cope with her life later on…this question haunts my mind.
into this world, who got abandoned on the very first second of life; how she
will cope with her life later on…this question haunts my mind.
In today’s
world where technology is so advanced still such child are born who are consequence
of lust and are abandoned…indeed a very sad facet.
world where technology is so advanced still such child are born who are consequence
of lust and are abandoned…indeed a very sad facet.
How her
Mother ignore her daughter’s missed period?
Mother ignore her daughter’s missed period?
Appeal to
Parents:
Parents:
Be frank
with your child and let them open up in your presence, especially Mothers need
to be careful.
with your child and let them open up in your presence, especially Mothers need
to be careful.
Teach them
about good and bad touch.
about good and bad touch.
Win their
confidence so that they share each and every piece of information….good or bad.
confidence so that they share each and every piece of information….good or bad.
Be vigilant
for both; Sons and Daughters.
for both; Sons and Daughters.
At times, parent’s
surveillance is more towards the girls of the family and this creates a rift
between siblings and the girls don’t share their feelings fearing they might be
scolded.
surveillance is more towards the girls of the family and this creates a rift
between siblings and the girls don’t share their feelings fearing they might be
scolded.
Be firm
when the child is wrong but in normal cases, be friendly in your approach.
when the child is wrong but in normal cases, be friendly in your approach.
Don’t make
your children timid, strengthen their innate qualities and be in reach when
they need you.
your children timid, strengthen their innate qualities and be in reach when
they need you.
Educate
them about Puberty so that they don’t get traumatized when they face and inform
the bare truth of Puberty.
them about Puberty so that they don’t get traumatized when they face and inform
the bare truth of Puberty.
Have faith
in your child but check their movements, friends & social circle.
in your child but check their movements, friends & social circle.
Accompany
them when they are going for outing.
them when they are going for outing.
Even check
the antecedents and movements of the extended family who are your regular
visitors or staying with the family.
the antecedents and movements of the extended family who are your regular
visitors or staying with the family.
This
incident can be a real lesson for many parents who ignore their offspring’s,
keeping them over busy in professional, personal and social commitments.
incident can be a real lesson for many parents who ignore their offspring’s,
keeping them over busy in professional, personal and social commitments.
Always
remember, your child needs your presence much than your gifts.
remember, your child needs your presence much than your gifts.
Many might
argue that the commitments that they are involved in are for their children…it’s
true it is, but don’t ruin their childhood…their safety also comes under your
jurisdiction so the parents needs to keep their eyes and ears open and time to
time evaluate the situations.
argue that the commitments that they are involved in are for their children…it’s
true it is, but don’t ruin their childhood…their safety also comes under your
jurisdiction so the parents needs to keep their eyes and ears open and time to
time evaluate the situations.
If ever you
find your child low, don’t ignore.
find your child low, don’t ignore.
Discuss
openly the reason and try to solve and bring back their smiles.
openly the reason and try to solve and bring back their smiles.
A parent
folly stole her smiles forever.
folly stole her smiles forever.
I pray to
God that not again such incidents take place…it’s very tragic for the child,
family and the society.
God that not again such incidents take place…it’s very tragic for the child,
family and the society.
Today…Morality
is at stake.
is at stake.
***In our
society, people are more vigil for girls and ignores the male community but
such acts is the amalgamation of both the sexes, so parents, teachers and
guardians should be vigilant towards both the sexes so that they don’t get involved
in such mistakes where repentance cannot change anything.
society, people are more vigil for girls and ignores the male community but
such acts is the amalgamation of both the sexes, so parents, teachers and
guardians should be vigilant towards both the sexes so that they don’t get involved
in such mistakes where repentance cannot change anything.
Disclaimer: The views are solely mine and it is my outburst so the feelings penned are raw.
The sad part is that the vast majority… and I really mean vast majority of incidents of rape still do not get reported. Most involve a direct family member too which only worsens the situation… its basically the movie Damini. Sadly, we haven't changed at all in all these decades.
Parents should really be there for their children and try to find out what's wrong if there is any such sign. This post is the need of the hour.
I also cant imagine her plight. But the article jittered me too. I really don't understand the mentality of people, have people gone so much insane that age doesn't matter, living or dead doesn't matter they just want to satisfy themselves. Parents need to be more careful and vigilant about behavior of their child.
Horrible horrible horrible.I hate that story and cannot imagine how parents where clueless .Its a failure as a society to protect children
It might seem obvious but sex education is the need of the hour. Educating and increasing awareness among parents too is equally important