var _prosperent = {campaign_id: ‘e65bafcbd711371b088e570dac64d370’}; The Indian Traditional Wedding is loaded with numerous rituals & it’s hectic for the bride & groom as well as for families of both sides, still all enjoy & I feel that’s the reason that once tied..it’s tough to unwound…the rituals bind them together though these days people wish to…
23rd Jan.1982, the sun shone bright and filled our room with its warmth…blessings us to the core for our new journey that we started together after tying the knot in the most auspicious hour along with the blessings of all…& the warmth of love of Ashwin filled me up to the brim, my joys knew…
It was evening before the D day…the day to get hitched arrived in our lives & now we were ready to take our promises that we exchanged to be one soul dwelling in two bodies…accepting each other on the front of society….and become Man & Wife & share our lives as a couple…the day we…
Many instances are there in life when you know that the feeling that you are going thru is not justified but still you nurture consciously or unconsciously…and this proves that one can have control over their head but heart leaps forward & overrules…and this matter of heart overtakes all the fact that you are well aware of & it races in its own speed….leaving you with many unexplained theories… you can reason well, but you are left dumb….you are yourself awestruck….it sped out and sublimed the boundaries…and an unknown becomes special for you in all ways and you start sharing all the good things of life & do expect the same you see a SOUL MATE inside him / her… all the differences of culture, creed, age vanishes in the air you don’t mind even you are called by your name. Even after knowing all the facts of each other, you rely and feel a sense of belonging to share & care…but the lips don’t dare to say anything in each other’s presence. It’s not bad to choose a Soul mate…the relationship is eternal and pure & when you accept each other UNCONDITIONALLY then many issues which mar the purity of any relationship disappears….. NO JEALOUSY….NO ANGER….NO EXPECTATIONS….. NO GRIEVANCES bcoz you have accepted knowing the fact that the person belongs to someone wholly, you can’t ask for yourself. You never know WHO…WHERE… WHEN can walk in your life and change the course of your feelings and make a place of its own in ur predefined life where you never thought there was a place for someone…. your heart a cocoon of hard shells will break at any point of time, venting out the unseen emotions which none has seen before. A Soulmate can be younger or elder to you, but you share a the feeling of oneness and find pleasure in each others company !!!! Here compelled to accept,” DIL HAI KI MANTA NAHIN! © Ila Varma 2014 Disclaimer: It is purely fictional & any resemblance to living or dead is just coincidental.
With the passage of time our bond strengthened and we were a step ahead….we were glued to telephone more and meetings were occasional though Ashwin visited college to catch a glimpse of his lover blooming and on few occasions Mom invited him to our place..she knew that I missed him badly so for me she…
In beginning, I felt worse at heart as I my heart ached for the glimpse of Ashwin but gradually I came out of the gloom as Ashwin talked to me over phone for long hours and his humors added glow to my life & his loud cackling laughter soothed me from deep inside & now…
var _prosperent = {campaign_id: ‘e65bafcbd711371b088e570dac64d370’}; Touch of Ashwin had sparked rows of emotions within me & had untamed my heart…I was missing him badly but didn’t had the courage to call at night…it was quite late…all had retreated to their rooms…The sky was clear & it was a starry night…I was changing my sides …off…
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The responses from both the families was contrary to our imagination, what appeared tough task was sorted easily…people say, if one’s wishes are true then nature help you out to get through easily, it appeared cent percent true… Today’s Bollywood hero Shahrukh Khan puts in, ” Kehte hain agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaho…to…
Now one more herculean task laid ahead to get approval from my PA, a tough job, I believed & Ashwin had to pursue….I didn’t had the guts to face him for this issue…I loved my father very much adored him for his skills but there was a hesitation between us….those days…fathers were strict with their…