Pooja Budhiraja, a working mom, a blogger, social media influencer and a homemaker. I believe one should follow his/her dreams religiously and never say No before trying. Life is about Khatta-Meetha experiences and through this post I would like to bring back a few bits of lost innocence.
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Mrinal Madhukar shares his unusual experience reminiscing the time spent with his younger bro. Let’s hear his story in his own words.
“ Because brothers don’t let each other wander in the dark alone.”– Jolene Perry
When I feel low or defeated, I look for his assurance that all will be well. On the emotional front, I am emotional and his lookout is quite practical. He guides me on these moments where I feel stuck.
May this compatibility and partner in crime remains the same throughout life.
“ Nothing can stop me from loving my brother.”– Brandy Norwood
Read next series of #SiblingStories contributed by Misha Jain.
Relationships are Fragile, Handle with Care.Been proactive on social media and included in
many groups within social media acquaints me with the issues faced by the
people. Relationship management is not an easy task and it requires patience
and perseverance. We need to remember
that the relationships are like the sacred thread which needs the care to be
handled and maintained. Too much of expectations and alterations might affect
and the thread can be snapped. Once snapped, it is not possible to come back
into original shape, how hard you try. A knot will always be there and it
suffocates the relationship.
रहिमन धागा प्रेम का, मत तोड़ो चटकाय।टूटे से फिर ना जुड़े, जुड़े गांठ परि जाय।।The
Doha of Rahim is apt to understand the essence of a relationship.
If we remember the words of Rahim, we can be true in maintaining long-term
Today, in one of the groups, hot discussion of the day was,“How
to handle Relatives & Friends who sprawl or sit on the sofa with feet up,
Should they be asked to sit properly or ignored?”
I too plunged in the discussion with my own opinion.
I hold the view that the relatives and friends that visit our place are because they nurture love and care for us and we should respect them.
In today’s scenario, people lazily sprawl on sofas while watching TV or time spent with family. When you yourself do the same then you don’t feel the need to be questioned then how come, you feel like asking family members and guests to avoid.
Further, people love to be in the comfort zone and because they feel at home at your place so they tend to get informal on their visit.
It is better to refrain from asking friends and relatives to be formal and not to sit with feet up or lying on the sofa. It will hurt the sentiments. Why be so concerned about the things that are perishable? It is far better to save the relationships because the relationships are delicate and fragile and need lots of care to flourish. The things damaged can be amended or replaced but a relationship cannot.
People don’t remember us through our articles and commodities, we are remembered for our good and bad deeds.
My sincere advice was that overlook these petty things and rise above these materialistic things to maintain the sanctity of our relationships.
Moreover, if your conscience does not allow to accept the informal behavior of the people, who visit you, then there are a few ways that you can adhere to and maintain silence.
Change your habit and keep the rules uniform for the insiders as well as the outsiders
I am a firm believer of Rahim Doha and I support it heartily.
Readers, share in your views. Honest views will be appreciated.
Disclaimer: The post is written solely on my experience with the open discussions in various forums. I don’t hold any grudge against someone nor I want to offend someone. I believe in healthy open discussions and I don’t get offended, rather I believe that the open interaction helps us to know many new things to learn and improve.
Every time, I prayed to save a Life
Settling all the rife
But this time, I had to stand strong
Praying to Almighty
To minimize the suffering
Of the caged soul.
The Artificial Respiration & Tubes
Saved her pulse
But, She was unable to recognize.
It was baffling for Me
To watch a witty Soul
Suffering for no cause.
She had lived a life
Of dignity & poise
Her Sparkling skin
Was envy of All.
Prayed to God
To free her Soul
From the worldly bindings
To soar high
Into the realms of Peace & Calmness
Where there is no strife.
My wishes were granted
Finally, She laid in peace forever.
The immortal soul got freedom
To take a flight
Away from Us.
I am sure
Her blessings will be always there
Of the pious soul.
The memories of past
Is etched in my heart
And, it will stay there Forever
To cherish my stay in her company.
© Ila Varma 14.07.2018
In tribute to my Granny with whom I shared my teen life and got acquainted with her versatility, wittiness and a big heart to accommodate me with love and care. Last month, she suffered with a stroke and health deterioration was in full swing. The consciousness dissolved and she was hooked to artificial machines to press her heart beat. She was in a bad state of health and I had to act stern and ask for mercy to free the soul from the burdens of diseases and multiple organ failure. Yesterday, She departed forever to rest in peace leaving the memories of togetherness intact.
Our dreams are embedded with our NGO, but it is in an infancy stage and a minuscule number support us in this race.