Friday, November 9, 2018

My Elder Bro - My Guide, Friend, Mentor & Lifeline! #SiblingRivalry




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The relation of the sibling is a unique one in this world. It starts with confusion when the elder one is suddenly taken aback when he/she sees another kid joining their league, which eventually leads to a lot of fighting and crying while they are growing up and finally ends with immense love and respect for each other. They become each other's backbone. From keeping secrets to guiding each other for the best, this is my, Mayank Manohar ode to the relation that I share with my elder brother Mrinal Madhukar.





The best memory that I have, which still wanders in the theatre of my mind, is when I was in 4th grade and my brother was in 6th, and we decided to save our pocket money to gift our parents something on their respective birthdays. It was really sweet of him to come up with the idea at such a young age and his will to make me understand. That's how he is, someone who is always so caring about the people he loves that he will always do something special for them.


My brother has always been sensitive since he was a kid. I remember how when our cousins used to come over and leave, I was the least affected by anyone's departure. But my brother would start crying from the moment he learned that people are leaving and the vacation was over. A few of my cousins prayed that my brother is asleep when they have to leave but seldom had it happened. For me, it was more disturbing that the vacation was over and it was time to go back to school. For him, people mattered, more than that the relationships mattered.


While growing up though I had my own tantrums, I still remember how we used to play WWE on our bed and always kept on trying to imitate the moves of those wrestlers. He would grab me, lift me and toss me on the bed and it always used to end with our laughter and warning from our mother that the bed will give up soon if we continued practicing the moves...and a day arrived, when planks of the bed were replaced. Mom premonition came out true.




The age when we were crazy about the magnets and would go to any extent to get one...it was easily accessible to get after operating the toy collection, we had. Once, we even ruined one of the soft toys that our mother loved, it was a monkey who used to blabber whenever it was slapped. We operated on him and got that big fat magnet out. We got good slaps multiple times for doing magnet business but trust me, it was worth it. 



We have laughed together, cried together and have done a lot of mischiefs together but today both of us are on their respective paths to make something out of the life we have, the best part that exists is we have always got each other's back. He would lie to our mother when she found something fishy in my bag ahead of my school exams. The way, he made our parents understand how I felt about engineering and how I wanted to do something else in my life.

He has always ensured that I get the best of everything while he would settle for normal things. For instance, I have stayed in many cities for my studies while he couldn't. He always pushed me really hard for achieving everything that I aspire for. And the reason that I shared my emotions with him about how I felt about engineering was because being my big brother, he used to take my interviews and literally guide me how corporate interviews are supposed to be and how I was supposed to basically put a lot of butter on everything that I say with a lot of emphasis on a few keywords like team player, enthusiastic, optimistic, opportunist etc. It didn't go well down with me and I realized after getting rejected umpteen times that I was made for something else. But unaware of the fact, my brother was speaking to all of his friends and colleagues to get me a better job on my merit.

That was when one fine day I decided to drop him a text explaining everything which led to one thing to another.  For four years  I am placed in Delhi, pleased and content with my choice of profession and aspiring for more & more.

I have always been on the other side of the shore, where I didn't share the same aim as my bro to stick to the only study in schools or college. There were times when our teachers used to compare between me and my brother and there were times when I would get really agitated by his aim to study more and more. I received good scolding to concentrate on studies but my mind was always busy doing something creative. My bro has been the best student, best son, best brother, best friend and now a really good husband. 




I wish him all the best in his life and hope that he gets the best of everything. I may not have been a good brother at times, but I know I have got your back...that's my real strength.


Reminiscing those days of childhood, a plan struck to start a blog train on #SiblingStories and 36 Bloggers of them amalgamated to share their sweet, salt and pepper encounters of #SiblingTalk.Brand Angtatva collaborated with me to give a new shape to this beautiful blog train journey.


The Campaign #SiblingStories & #SiblingTalk hosted by Ila Varma in collaboration with Angtatva comes to an end after a month-long celebration of adventurous blog train trip with Siblings. I am happy that it ended peacefully minting excellent relationship with new and old bloggers from across the globe. The articles shared by all the participants are indeed wonderful, emotional and funny instances with our siblings and I am sure it has helped in unearthing new facts about our siblings.

14 comments:

  1. Nicely written, full of emotions, good to introspect

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  2. A lovely post written by which is full of emotions.

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  3. Such a sweet bond, expressed so beautifully

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  4. what a lovely train journey you thought of! I wish I had known earlier, I would have participated with my own sibling stories. My brother who is just a year and a half younger than me has always been my baby brother but since our 50's we've become more friends ..... of course we always had a strong bond - so strong that one birthday we both sent our mum the same birthday card from different parts of the world! We hadn't planned on sending the cards and had bought them in different cities - he in the US and me in India

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  5. Lovely write up and expressed beautifully. It is indeed wonderful to find a mentor or guide in a sibling!

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  6. Nice read , playing WWF is something which kids especially boys do :)

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  7. Awww you made me nostalgic. Such a sweet bond you share with your brother. I used to play WWF with my siblings too... And steal maggie from each other's plate.
    Enjoyed reading this beautiful post of yours.

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  8. What a lovely writeup! I laughed a lot over your magnet craze. Its good to read #SiblingStories of all bloggers. Thanks Ila for hosting a blog train with such a nostalgic theme.

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    MeenalSonal from AuraOfThoughts

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  9. Sweet narration with lovely and cute pics.Thoroughly enjoyed reading.All the childhood mischief are now good memories.

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  10. What an emotional post. Directly touches ones heart.

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  11. Such a healrtfelt, direct dil-se post. Your brother will be elated reading this that you are not as good as him. :p

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  12. Loved the pictures and the easy conversational tone of the post. I think I am going to visit this blog more often now...

    Arvind Passey
    http://www.passey.info

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