threats & murder, rapes and incest paints the newsprint, ho halla on
multiple channels steal the serenity of our mind and at times, we question with
Why so much
of turbulence in an educated society?
Have we got
educated for the sake of acting barbaric?
The news of
a ten year old girl giving birth to a girl child left me shattered and
thousands n thousands of queries stirred me from within…and I can feel her blank eyes.
Who is safe
in our community?
kids are raped and sodomized. The kids who go through carry the scars with
themselves forever and nothing can help them to erase these unfortunate
What are the people up to?
How can a
man be so cruel with her?
Was he not
able to judge her innocence while outraging her modesty?
boiled when I came to know that a close family member was involved in this heinous crime…the man stole her childhood forever.
know whether this case is the first case of such incident but in my life of 45
years, I have heard it for the first time and this incident challenges all to
be vigilant towards their kids.
has been floored that she is not informed about the pregnancy & childbirth but
the pregnancy blues are not so easy to digest for a responsible n grown up
woman…how she faced the trauma so silently…She didn’t understand when the man breached
her virginity but carrying baby for so many long weeks…she might be aware of
all the transformations within…even the hushes around are loud enough to make
immense physiological & psychological changes, how can it go unnoticed
under her nose?
know her nor have I seen her but my heart cries out for her at the thought of
so many unfortunate incidents that saddled her life and never can she be a
normal child again.
ignorance of her parents jeopardized her life forever.
Mother could not notice her physiological changes?
illiterate chunks are well aware of these basic things.
The law of
our country proved futile for her…leaving her at the risk of giving birth to a
child when she herself was a child, who saw only ten springs of her life.
I may sound
harsh n stern but it would have been far better to terminate her pregnancy
risking her life…even this take was a real threat to her life.
A child came
into this world, who got abandoned on the very first second of life; how she
will cope with her life later on…this question haunts my mind.
world where technology is so advanced still such child are born who are consequence
of lust and are abandoned…indeed a very sad facet.
Mother ignore her daughter’s missed period?
with your child and let them open up in your presence, especially Mothers need
to be careful.
about good and bad touch.
confidence so that they share each and every piece of information….good or bad.
for both; Sons and Daughters.
At times, parent’s
surveillance is more towards the girls of the family and this creates a rift
between siblings and the girls don’t share their feelings fearing they might be
when the child is wrong but in normal cases, be friendly in your approach.
your children timid, strengthen their innate qualities and be in reach when
they need you.
them about Puberty so that they don’t get traumatized when they face and inform
the bare truth of Puberty.
in your child but check their movements, friends & social circle.
them when they are going for outing.
the antecedents and movements of the extended family who are your regular
visitors or staying with the family.
incident can be a real lesson for many parents who ignore their offspring’s,
keeping them over busy in professional, personal and social commitments.
remember, your child needs your presence much than your gifts.
argue that the commitments that they are involved in are for their children…it’s
true it is, but don’t ruin their childhood…their safety also comes under your
jurisdiction so the parents needs to keep their eyes and ears open and time to
time evaluate the situations.
If ever you
find your child low, don’t ignore.
openly the reason and try to solve and bring back their smiles.
folly stole her smiles forever.
I pray to
God that not again such incidents take place…it’s very tragic for the child,
family and the society.
is at stake.
society, people are more vigil for girls and ignores the male community but
such acts is the amalgamation of both the sexes, so parents, teachers and
guardians should be vigilant towards both the sexes so that they don’t get involved
in such mistakes where repentance cannot change anything.
Disclaimer: The views are solely mine and it is my outburst so the feelings penned are raw.