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Safe & Pleasurable!!! #Condom usage in India

 
 

Sex is essential for procreation as well as recreation. To enjoy safe sex and for sexual wellness, one needs to adopt a method of contraception. The safe method is the usage of condoms to be free from worries of conceiving or transmitting STD diseases.

A condom is regarded as one of the safe methods and it’s simple the application makes it more popular among the masses across the globe.

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Are you Just With Your Children? #AtoZChallenge






Many times, we come across such parents who favour one child
more than the other. I feel very bad for those kids and I believe that been
unjust, the parents are creating a strife between the siblings.

It is not healthy for the children, it stunts their emotional
growth and inferiority complex envelops them.

Many times, I wonder as to why parents differentiate between
their children when all are their own offspring.

In many families, younger ones are more pampered and elder
one is shelved with responsibility though the difference between the siblings
are only two to three years.
At times, the sincere or studious
kid is pampered or is the centre of attraction.

Through my article, I wish to address to all the parents to
be JUST with their kids.

All are your offspring, the same pain you have undergone to
bring them to this world, so justified treatment should be given to all.

Treat all the kids alike and give them the same opportunity.

Don’t compare the children, complex develops within the
child and it affects their personality. Even sibling rivalry develops among the
children.

Parents or other members of the family should take care to
treat all alike in spite of differences in their persona & presentation.

I believe the kid who is weak needs more care than the
sincere ones. Push your child to do better.

Your encouraging words will bring in a lot of positive changes.

Don’t bully them or discourage them.

The elder one is too a kid, two three years difference doesn’t
make him a man, hence responsibility should not be loaded rather it is should
be well distributed among them and they will take as a challenge to complete n
will rather enjoy doing it.

A child who fetches good numbers in class or is a bright
student is more cared by the parents than the other one who is average in
studies. The disparity among children should be abolished.

Parents, do justice in sharing your love towards your
children.

Justified treatment will enhance the persona of the children
and they will grow into independent entity with healthy mind & positive
thoughts.

Children with positive thoughts are an asset to the society
too and we can hope for safe environment in society.

I believe that the frustrated souls are the species who
create nuisance in society by indulging in eve teasing, murder, rape etc.

Parents love and care is the important ingredient in the
life of a child and the basic care and affection moulds their personality.

Do you support my view?

Pl leave your comments.

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*Ila*


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Musings XII

#Knowledge

 

Bookish knowledge helps you to gain numbers

The knowledge of worldly affairs outnumbers.

One should not be bookworm. Been bookish will not help the person to rule in the world. One need to have practical knowledge to compete with the world. You can get a job based on numbers but you can’t fare well in the organisation if you are not competent to tackle the situations.

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Musings XI

#Justice Delayed is Justice Denied.

Wish to see the changes

in the dictum of our laws.

Cases are pending long in courts

Innocents are often behind the bars

Waiting for the justice

The culprits move freely.

In wait of justice

One or two generation perish

But the case is not resolved.

In India, judiciary is very slow in pronouncing sentences to culprits. In the wait of justice, many innocent perish behind the bars and the culprits enjoy the liberty of freedom. It is the need of the hour to amend the laws and bring in changes in absolving the cases in minimum time.

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Musings X

#Irony

Watching him messing with food

I went into the flashback

When I used to mess around

And he used to clean out

And acted stern to not repeat it again.

Now he does & I clean

Making him understand as a child not to repeat it again.

It makes me cry at the irony of life.

#Parkinson #oldage #ironyoflife #suffering #life

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How to Make Your Child Independent?

Independent child is a virtue to the parents and society if they are raised in the right manner. A parent gives the right to independence to the child with a belief that the child will use it in the right manner. The responsibility lies on the child to keep up the faith.

Recently, I visited one of my friends and saw that she was busy taking care of the chores of the child, who was near about 14-15 years.

I was quite puzzled and thought for a while whether to give a sermon to my friend or not on the way she was treating her child.

She was overprotective and over caring and this over care had spoiled the child, he was totally dependent on his Mom for all of his activities.

His school was nearby home, still, she accompanied him in the morning and recess hours. She would feed him, helped him in his school work and again accompanied to a playground.

I couldn’t stop myself and blurted out in front of her child.

“What are you doing Maya? You are spoiling Yash. Raise him as an individual entity.  Let him grow and handle things on his own. He is no more a small child, give him some space. Even the moms of small children don’t follow their children as you do.” I said.

“It’s my love, dear.” Maya said.

“This is not love, love gives freedom to be independent, this is your fear and it has made you over possessive. Even I love my children more than my life but have given space to grow and have made them so independent that even if I am not in house, they can manage themselves well.”

How to Handle Growing Child to Make Them Independent.

As the child grows, start giving him responsibility and freedom to handle things on their own. They will learn through trial n error method. In that process, they may keep you on toes to clean the mess but gradually they will pick up the habits and settle.

Once they start kindergarten, ask them to keep their tiffin & water bottle in their bags and while returning ask them to stack at the designated place. This habit will help him to arrange their books in the next classes and be methodical.

If the school is nearby, let them go by themselves when they reach the age of 10. At this age, they are matured to cross the road and manage themselves. Initially, if you have fears, follow them and watch how the child is managing and gradually wean him out of the habit.

Stop feeding them. Give them their food and let them eat on their own. Your work of cleaning may double initially but slowly, he will get into the habit.

Ask them to do their homework on their own. Help them where they get stuck. Don’t provide the answers, teach the technique to reach the answer, this way the child will use his brain and be independent.

Teach them the activity of outside world too with age such as posting cards, depositing money in banks, buying essentials, etc. They will learn to interact at Post offices, Doctor’s Clinic, Banks, etc. They will learn how to transact and will become independent and confident.

Teach them to iron their school uniforms and arrange their bags and beds.

They will grow into confident individuals and you too will have time to pursue your hobbies or take rest after a hectic schedule.

Maya understood my point and promised that she will abide by the same and transform Yash to a confident and independent child.

Moms…ensure to teach your child the practical life and make them independent in thought and actions and guide them on the right track to ascertain their happy future.

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Hacker #AtoZChallenge







The woman is reborn when she becomes a mother. Howsoever
careless she was, the day she cuddles her bundle of joy, she becomes
responsible, caring and her heart is full of love. Her day starts with the
child and her night ends with her child. She is so obsessed to give her child
all the wonderful things of the world.

She is always on the spree how to make her motherhood
enjoyable and devises ways to achieve them and there she becomes Mom-Hacker.

To spend more time with her child, she discovers shortcut method
to comply with the demands as a Mother, wife and at times as a daughter-in-law.
God made woman very strong from inside and she is used to
multi-tasking. Woman power is often associated with Devi Durga and she has the
ability of Devi to handle multiple things at one time, still she desires to
apply few shortcuts to meet the demand of the situation.

The morning hours are hectic when the kids are young, you
need multiple hands to juggle between school and office timings plus getting
oneself ready to leave the kids to the bus stop. One has to run around packing tiffin’s,
getting them dressed and fed, taking out the office dress of husband.

KITCHEN HACKS.

To manage those errands in a smooth manner, I adopted few
kitchen hacks to get relieved in the morning hours and to control my
temperament which gets on high on pressure of too many work at the same time.
In the night, kids slept early and I had ample time to
arrange the things for morning chores.

  • I prepared the dough at night and stored in the
    fridge.




  • The vegetables to be prepared next morning were
    cut and washed at night.




  • Ironed the dresses of my kids and hubby and hung
    in the designated wardrobe from where they could take themselves without
    troubling me.




  • The shoes were polished.




This organised structure eased my morning schedules and I
was cool n happy watching things run in a smooth manner. My cool temperament
kept the family members at ease and they remained happy.


GUESTS HACKS:

A homemaker is in trouble when uninvited guests pour in and
it adds more distress if your maid is absent. To encounter it coolly, I store
Cold drinks & juices in refrigerator. I prepare Aam panna and store in
bottles, ready to serve with mint. It is refreshing drink in summers. I store
ready to make coffee blends to prepare hot and cold coffee as per the climate.



For winters, I store homemade cookies, both sugary & salty and besan laddoos to serve the guests.



PARTY HACKS:

On birthdays & anniversary, I believe to throw a party
with homemade servings. I love cooking and serving, it’s quite refreshing for
me. I feel happy to entertain people with my cooked food. But we need a proper
planning to make the guests & oneself comfortable.



  • Cut the required vegetables and store neatly in the fridge

  • Fry the kebabs twelve hours before the party.

  • Marinate non-veg 12 hours prior to party.

  • Knead the required dough for puris.

  • Prepare custards and ice-cream a day before to serve cool
    servings.

  • Check your kitchen store and buy the lacking items one to
    two day before. Don’t wait for last minute.

  • Grind the required masalas and fry them 12 hours before the
    party.

  • Wash the cutleries a day before the party.

  • Change the linen and prior to the covers two days party day.

  • Decide your dress a week before and if you need something,
    buy. 



If the above things are done before the D-day, you and your
guests will enjoy the party. Your smiles will give warm welcome to your guests
and your organised party will be appreciated by all. My style of throwing party
is mentioned above in detail.


HOME MAINTENANCE HACKS:

  • Cleaning and maintaining cleanliness is a tough job and
    needs a lot of planning. 


Instead of doing all the things in a day, divide the cleaning jobs.





  • I have divided my cleaning chores throughout the
    weekdays excluding Sundays. Sundays are for family and the kids have freedom to
    mess.



  • One room is cleaned every day and it goes in
    rotation.



  • In morning hours, there is a lot of rush so I
    run my washing machine in noon during winters and in late evenings in summers.



  • I clean my bathroom daily and the rest of
    the family members do the same. This way the bathroom is always clean n dry.





  • Dusting is done every day to ward off dusts and
    mites.




These hacks reduces the burden and the work is done with ease. Scheduling and doing things in routine eases
troubles and we tend to leave a stress free life.

Linking to #MMM


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*Ila*


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Musings IX

#Heaven 

People enter the temple to beg for heaven

ignoring the beggars at the entrance of the temple.

If you really wish to avail heaven in your life

Help the real needy people.

Instead of donating money & jewelry to temples

Donate the same to educate the child of an unprivileged.

Heaven or Hell is on the Earth

Your deeds decide your Fate.

People throng in temples requesting God to help them to attain peace and prosperity and donate lots & lots so that their requests are heard.

My belief is that if you feed a thirsty, your action will be rewarded but if you feed a satiated person, there is no value of your deed.

Heaven or Hell both are on Earth and your Karma decides your future.

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Musings VIII

#Gratitude

We need to be thankful for what we have, but do we do or feel so…very few. Many take it as their own creation and don’t fathom to give the credit to others. It’s true the creativity that one creates is his own power but what about the powers that we are enjoying for free and the source is natural and free, not a single penny is charged for enormous facility…what is that…The natural resources that we are using in our daily life, Sunlight; Moonlight; Breeze & Water.

Just imagine a day without sunlight, water and breeze…life will not sustain how hard the human  intelligentsia  works for it…so we should extend our gratitude to the unseen creator who has crafted this world so beautifully regulating with ample resources and we should take care that we use it in a gentle way to reserve for the posterity.Life would have been dull without these natural resources.

I am thankful to God for the beautiful nature around and his creations.

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Mama Earth Products Reviews. #Childcare






Once again, I am back with more range of products of Mama Earth for the babies and for the moms and even senior citizens can use.

A unique product which caters the need of all generations and especially the product is derived from nature, thereby reducing the risk of the ill effects of synthetic products.

The efficacy of the product is astounding.

This month, we got Three products of Mama Earth to review.

  • Mama Earth Natural Insect Repellent Spray. 

  • Mama Earth Diaper Rash Cream.

  • Mama Earth Mineral Based Sunscreen for Babies.




 I don’t believe in using sprays for bugs and mosquitoes for the children or myself but when I read the leaflet of the product, my worries were at bay and decided that it can be used during the change of seasons and on the onset of summers to save them from bites from insects, gnats & mosquitoes.



Product Description:  This product contains natural essential aromatic oils, Citronella, Peppermint & Lemon eucalyptus and the smell is great for the babies though pungent for the mosquitoes and they swiftly run away after spray. The product is free from Deet, parabens, sulfates, phthalates, mineral oil, petroleum, synthetic fragrances & dyes.



Usage:  Shake well before every use. Do not apply on cuts & wounds.



The next product that is used abundantly is the Mama Earth Diaper Rash Cream. It comes to rescue in the initial years 0 to 2 years when the babies use Diapers and rashes appear on the soft skin of the babies. Diaper Rash cream smoothens the skin of the babies and it leaves the skin soft & supple. It should be used twice or thrice a day, after wiping the nappy area dry. The action of the product is very fast & it provides rapid relief.
Product Description:  This product is zinc oxide based, non-petroleum, natural goodness of Shea butter, Calendula extract, Wheat germ, Almond & Olive oil. The product is free from the harmful chemicals, that is, it has no parabens, sulfates, phthalates, mineral oil, petroleum, synthetic fragrances or dyes.






The last product that I am reviewing today is Mama Earth Mineral Based Sunscreen for Babies. It has come up with the sunscreen lotion for the babies which can save them from getting sunburns or skin been damaged by the sun heat. Now the baby can enjoy outings on the beaches by getting covered by this product. While going out in the sun, apply a layer of the product on the face of your baby and you.
Product Description:  It is especially formulated for the babies and it is SPF 20+ and it contains active minerals, Shea butter, Calendula extract, Wheatgerm, Almond & Olive oil and the best part of this product is that it does not contains Octycelene, parabens, sulfates, phthalates, mineral oil, petroleum or synthetic fragrances or dyes.

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My Ratings: 4.5/5

Word of Caution: Before using the product, don’t forget to do a patch test on your baby.

I received the PR samples and I used it on myself & my niece and found the result positive and was happy with the products response.
Reviewed By Ila Varma.

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